<h1 style="text-align: center;">Mastering Rapport in The Dating Game</h1>
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<p>A lot of Game concepts get misunderstood often due to the frequent breakdowns of specific concepts and how to use them and to why they’re effective – it can lead to confusion without understanding that game isn’t a set of routines and or strategies, but more of a lifestyle and set of behaviours that you display in order to become attractive to the fairer sex. What tools you use is ultimately determined on how you are using them, or how you are saying things, or how you are perceived. For instance, a few weeks ago I asked what some of the game concepts some of my readers were having trouble with, and the rapport and breaking rapport came up as one of the things troubling some of the padawans out there. I was mulling over how I’d deliver the visceral knowledge of rapport building, and breaking rapport and its effectiveness. But I came to a mental standstill. Rapport can be the biggest weapon in your pussy getting weapons cache, but how to teach this? It is essential that in building rapport you have a few key components.</p>
<h2>Key Elements of Rapport</h2>
<p>1. Charisma. Without a natural charisma, you will find building rapport as easy as performing a triple bypass surgery – hell you won’t even know where to begin, or what building rapport really means. Rapport isn’t just building comfort, but it isn’t not doing this either – a man with no charisma, is a man with no game. However, like all things Game related, it is all in your head, it is all about internal game, and bringing internal game to the external at will, and with as little effort as possible. Too many times you are told when you should ‘neg’ a girl, even though a neg is just a playful tease, aimed with precision by a master to insinuate to a girl both that she’s not as high value as him, but also that he’s cool, aloof and indifferent. For instance, in cities like <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/United-States/California/city-of-san-diego.html">San Diego</a>, mastering subtle cues and playful teasing can make all the difference.</p>
<p>2. Not taking her seriously. As the example above, the lesson is when I say it, I don’t care how she responds. I actually know I’ll get one of two reactions: one will be a trumped up act of shock on her part, where a smile cracks through her little play, and the playful smack; or she will become completely insecure about how she looks and malleable to any of my whims. This is because I’m not concerned with the possible outcome of her getting angry. In places like <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/United-States/Texas/city-of-dallas.html">Dallas</a>, understanding this dynamic is crucial for early success in building rapport.</p>
<h2>Advanced Rapport Techniques</h2>
<p>The thing with rapport building is that you need to tease her quite a bit. An attention whore, or girl who takes herself seriously, will need a lot more teasing. A feminine girl, however, you can get away with just a little teasing. But without teasing her and playing with her, there’s not going to be that flirty connection, and rapport is really only flirting. So you absolutely cannot take anything she says seriously. My mindset with any girl is I’m above her, and her little attempts at teasing, humour, being serious, or being dramatic, are all only slightly amusing because she’s just so damn cute. Some insights about maintaining attraction can also be found in <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2021/02/08/eye-contact-attraction/">why men lose attraction in relationships</a>.</p>
<p>“I had a long day at the office today.”</p>
<p>“Awe… you poor thing. Works pretty rough isn’t it?” – in cocky grin completely mocking her, but playfully.</p>
<p>“Shut up! It was.” Laughing and pouting at the same time.</p>
<p>“I know, big tough girl in the big bad world.”</p>
<p>Teasing is important, but if you continue to mock her the entire night, she’ll eventually grow tired of you. Teasing is a way to increase the sexual tension; if you don’t learn when to stop, it will hit its peak and begin to wane. Once you’ve got some teasing in there, you can talk about different subjects. If she starts drifting away from the sexual tension, throw in a tease again. Knowing the limits is also covered in <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2019/10/28/connections-attractions-entering-into-relationships/">how to stay attractive in long-term relationships</a>. For instance, in cities like <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/United-States/Florida/city-of-orlando.html">Orlando</a>, mastering when to pull back is as important as knowing when to escalate.</p>
<p>As you can see, rapport isn’t really an easy thing to dissect. Rapport is your whole speaking interaction with her before you lay her. It is in fact the basis of any relationship you have. You and your friends have rapport, and your family and co-workers – the difference with them is it isn’t sexually charged. Sexually charging the rapport comes from teasing her, and not taking her seriously. If you are in a playful mode, aloof, indifferent to her reactions, and don’t take her seriously, you will find that you may have charisma after all.</p>